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  1. First thing, Don’t overthink it, Don’t be nervous! You’re just talking to people just like yourself!
  2. Dress for success – a clean outfit and a well-groomed presence matter most.
  3. You don’t have to dress up, wear your finest jewellery and most expensive clothing, you are there to meet someone realistic.
  4. First Impressions count – When you first meet your date, take a moment to look them in the eyes, say hello, and be sure to give them your undivided attention.
  5. Don’t be embarrassed. Everyone is there for the same reason as you—to meet new people.
  6. Make sure that both you and the other person get to talk during each speed dating segment. Don’t let one person monopolise the conversation.
  7. If you have any “deal breaker” issues, work them into your conversations as simple questions. For example, do you smoke? Do you have children?
  8. Spending a few seconds asking these kind of questions will allow you to make a much more informed decision about whom you wish to keep talking to at the end of the evening.
  9. Avoid exchanging personal contacts at the event, we will do that for you based on your scorecard feedback
  10. Unlike having dinner or going to the movies, silence isn’t acceptable when you’re on a speed date. You’re there to get to know people quickly, so come prepared to talk about yourself and ask questions.

What’s the Biggest Mistake You could make as an Attendee?

  1. Pre-judging people before speaking/interacting with them.
  2. Remember that if someone meets 80% of your dating criteria without triggering any major deal breakers, you should give that person a second look.
  3. Thinking you have to be agreeable with everyone you meet, remember we are all independent adults, there are no obligations at all.
  4. Know your limits! Don’t overdo it on the liquor; your conversation needs to remain Coherent :).