- First thing, Don’t overthink it, Don’t be nervous! You’re just talking to people just like yourself!
- Dress for success – a clean outfit and a well-groomed presence matter most.
- You don’t have to dress up, wear your finest jewellery and most expensive clothing, you are there to meet someone realistic.
- First Impressions count – When you first meet your date, take a moment to look them in the eyes, say hello, and be sure to give them your undivided attention.
- Don’t be embarrassed. Everyone is there for the same reason as you—to meet new people.
- Make sure that both you and the other person get to talk during each speed dating segment. Don’t let one person monopolise the conversation.
- If you have any “deal breaker” issues, work them into your conversations as simple questions. For example, do you smoke? Do you have children?
- Spending a few seconds asking these kind of questions will allow you to make a much more informed decision about whom you wish to keep talking to at the end of the evening.
- Avoid exchanging personal contacts at the event, we will do that for you based on your scorecard feedback
- Unlike having dinner or going to the movies, silence isn’t acceptable when you’re on a speed date. You’re there to get to know people quickly, so come prepared to talk about yourself and ask questions.
What’s the Biggest Mistake You could make as an Attendee?
- Pre-judging people before speaking/interacting with them.
- Remember that if someone meets 80% of your dating criteria without triggering any major deal breakers, you should give that person a second look.
- Thinking you have to be agreeable with everyone you meet, remember we are all independent adults, there are no obligations at all.
- Know your limits! Don’t overdo it on the liquor; your conversation needs to remain Coherent :).
